“My partner is getting lazier and lazier”

I need some help. I feel like my partner is getting lazier and lazier, and our life is getting more and more busy with commitments. I already work two jobs, and trying to keep up with cleaning, cooking every night, and caring for our 50 animals is just getting overwhelmed for me.

I think it’s hurting our relationship and my mental heat, but he never helps without being asked, then still whinges or forgets etc.