“I feel unsatisfied and used for sex”

My partner of seven years lately hasn’t been satisfying me.

Just today, I was off my period and ready to go. It felt amazing and he cums and just rolls over as if it was nothing. He goes on these sites pretending to be me, (this is his fetish and yes, I gave him permission for it.) He uploads my nudes (without face.)

He gets off on the fact that other men get off to my body. But when he goes to have sex with me, it’s like he kinda uses me and is done. I don’t know what to do, it has me really pissed off now. I love the man to death, but I’m tired of feeling unsatisfied and used for sex. Everything else in our relationship is great,  just sexually it’s lacking.

“My guy is looking up nude pics of his ex-girlfriend”

Baby daddy and I haven’t been together for a couple of weeks recently. I don’t know what to do, I went through his Google history and I found the weirdest stuff! He was looking up an ex girlfriend he hasn’t seen in 4 years, trying to find NUDES of her. He looked up one of his BEST FRIEND’S current girlfriend and tried finding nudes of her, or if she had a webcam. (She’s not the prettiest girl either).

Plus he was creeping on my best friend I’ve known since I was 14! And he knows her! He looks at porn regularly as well. I also think he has a Paypal account (why else would he go to the website?) I confronted him about the searches and he said, “I don’t know why i do that!  I think it’s because you don’t send me nudes and I like it when my exes sent me nudes. And you never wanna do that.” I told him he should’ve told me, but why MY best friend???? Or his friend’s girlfriend?? Is that some kind of fetish or what? Help me please.