I’ve started seeing my ex-boyfriends dad.
Long story short, me and my ex went out in high school. He made bad life choices which inevitably led to me leaving him. He had a hard time with drugs and was a pathological liar. Our paths crossed again now we are in our early 20’s and he had changed. Well, he stopped taking drugs. We tried again and it was good, but I couldn’t bring myself to commit, probably due to the fact he is still full of shit. Throughout our brief second relationship I became close with his family and got on really well with his dad. I did feel something for his dad. I was all messed up and confused, but I knew his dad and we just gelled. Never insinuating anything whilst in a relationship, just got on really well and I respected him so much.
Since the second break up I found myself talking to his dad more and more. The flirting became apparent and we ended up sleeping together. At first I thought fuck it, it’s a one off, nothing will come of it, but now we meet up regularly, not just for sex, but because we get on so well, and share similar interests.
It’s all in secret, even though my ex-boyfriend knows me and his dad get on so well. I find myself feeling anxious all the time and not being able to sleep, but I still don’t want to end what we have. I have no idea if it will come to anything but I want to find out. I’m in my early 20’s and he is in his mid 40’s and its not the age that we are concerned about. It’s the, ‘you’re my ex’s dad and we are both dead if anyone finds out.’ I should point out that he is single, although I know his ex, the mum, does want him back whilst playing away with her current boyfriend. Could this be anymore messed up?