I read an article the other day about a Russian basketball player who’s wife allows him to cheat on her once per year. I get that there is temptation – even more so when you are in the spotlight (there’s nothing like an athlete or a celebrity to make you toss your panties) – but, really? Once per year? Her reasoning was that if something is forbidden, it makes you want to do it that much more. Yes, I get it – but isn’t that a slippery slope? Say he uses his hall pass in March. At that point, he has 8 months where he’s technically not allowed to cheat. So, now, since he cheated already this year, he won’t do it again? I kind of feel like that’s the equivalent of giving a baby 1 lick of a sucker then taking it away. For a year. That’s going to be a baby who is constantly thinking about wanting another lick, right? How is that helpful in keeping a solid relationship? Or am I missing the point?