So, after almost 8 years of being single, relationships lasting no more than 5 months, and hundreds of tubs of Ben and Jerry’s, I need to start again. I need to do this over, start as if I’ve never dated before, and I’m having a huge problem wiping the slate clean. I know we are supposed to learn from our mistakes, and use that knowledge in the future, but I find myself hating dating and men more and more as each failed relationship ends. I sit and I get angry, I grieve for the dreams of the white picket fence and the 2.5 kids I saw with Mr. So-and-so, and then I can’t date for months. I meet someone, usually online, and I trust them and the cycle starts again.
I need my faith in the male species renewed, and Im trusting some of you amazing men on this site to help me! I’ve read your advice, and can’t think of a better unbiased, advice, website for dating to use! 🙂
Any tips on what you men (seemingly normal men at that) want? I’ve done online dating for almost 8 years and met nothing but douchebags and assbags and every other ‘bag’ you can thing of but….nothing ‘normal’.
Sounds really bad, but I want someone with a job, a place to live ( that isn’t with his mother in her one bedroom apt on her pull out couch for the last year), a good sense of humour, plans and ambitions for the future. Why is that so hard to find??? Why am I, a seemingly normal 27 year old with fantastic tits (LOL) still single after all this? After all the hope and enthusiasm I have for dating and meeting new people, I am a deflated little balloon of hope and despair….
Any help is greatly appreciated 🙂