How do I ask my boyfriend to lose a little weight and start working out? When I first met him about 5 years ago (we’ve been dating for 3), he was in much better shape. I was incredibly physically attracted to him. In the last few years however, he has continued to gain weight and I’m afraid I’m starting to feel less attracted to him. I feel awful about this and very superficial…how do I bring it up without hurting his feelings?