So, my boyfriend and I have very different ideas of privacy in a relationship. I believe that everything should be put out there. Him, not so much. We often have issues with me going through his phone and facebook. The thing is, I’ve found things on there that aren’t okay. I found him flirting with another girl. Serious flirting. Borderline cheating. Because of this, I feel that I should have the right to go through his things. He broke my trust, and that, I think, gives me a pretty good reason to snoop. That was a while ago, so trust has, for the most part, been re-established. Now, I just like seeing what he’s talking about. At this point, it’s not even about trust anymore. I’m just honestly curious. He refuses to believe that though. He freaks anytime I even hold his phone, which just makes me paranoid. I usually end up looking anyway, and nothing’s there, which makes me wonder why he’s freaking. I’ve always been completely open with him and have nothing to hide. He has full access to my accounts/phone if he would ever want it, and I just wish he would give me the same courtesy, especially considering past incidences. Advice?