My girlfriend and I are fairly young and you may be tempted to not take this seriously, but please do. We are very mature for our age and are involved with numerous things and activities that require us to be so.
Some background; I myself am 18, while she is 16. We’ve been together for six months now and have had a very steady and serious relationship up until very recently. She brought to my attention that to her, she feels like the relationship is slightly different for her now. She says that she still loves me the same, and still reciprocates everything, from my kisses, to our cuddles. But, she has also said that to her it feels as if the spark for her has gone out? Like I said earlier, everything appears to be the same for the most part, except for ourselves at times because we are now both aware of how she is feeling. I have a theory for this that has been confirmed by others, and that is that she is simply settling into the relationship and getting used to things. I feel that this theory is very accurate, because she has also told me that things that used to give her butterflies when I did them doesn’t have the same effect anymore.
Do you think that this is actually a relationship-ending feeling, or is it just a natural thing after being with someone for quite a bit? Also, we have talked and decided to give ourselves a while and see what happens.