I’m 18 and have a thing for older guys.
A few months ago I had a tinder date/hookup with a 33 year old guy who was just travelling through. We had a really great night and we got along really well and the sex was fantastic. I thought it was just a one night stand and I’d never hear from him again. The next day he did the typical “wow last night was amazing” texts and all that, and I went along with it and that was fine.
He was still texting me a few days later and every now and then we chat even still. But now he’s planning another trip basically just to come and see me again. He keep telling me things like how “sexy” I am and how I’m “the best body he’s been with” (I’m not mad at him for saying that because we’re keeping it strictly about sex that way.) I know he’s only saying those things because I’m young and he’s just infatuated with that but he also told me he named his van after me and he’s always telling me how much he thinks about me.
I’d love to boink him again, but is all this a bit too much? Should I cut things off before it gets too weird?
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snort He named his van after you? Ok, my husband and I are dying at that one. Yes, move on from this one since you only want casual. The fact that he is still hitting you up at his age means women his age wouldn’t give him the time of day so he uses younger women to prop up his ego and thinks drama is love. You are a smart young woman to recognize this and ask, since you are just now getting to taste the buffet of life. Go enjoy your sexuality and make sure to test for stds at clinics every six months. I would suggest you check out the polyamoury community and swinging community while you are at it. Best wishes!
Yesssss. Definitely move on. Not only is that sincerely creeptastic that a 33 year old man is doing that and having sex with a 18 year old, but you just got freedom! GO! Date! Have fun!
There’s noting wrong with you liking older men, btw. But he and you are in two very different stages of life. If you dated him you would eventually hate him for stealing those years of experimentation and growing.
I would say its a little creepy and since you’re asking about it, I believe you think it’s a little creepy as well. I’m sure what you have stated isn’t even the half of it. Cut him off NOW!