I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years, but before on and off for 2, so pretty much 5 years and he was my first boyfriend.  He is pretty special and would do anything for me except he is very controlling and jealous. I have lost so many friends because of him.

Whenever I want to go out with friends he makes it his mission to ruin it so I won’t go.  But other than that he is amazing. Lately I’ve been missing being single.. being able to do what I want when I want, see who I want.  My friends have all told me they are just waiting for me and him to break up so we can hang out again.

I don’t know what to do, because me and him have been living together for nearly 2 years and if we break up, we have nowhere to go and we were planning on buying a house and he has changed his whole life just for me. So I don’t know whether to stick it out with him and set my future up or go to being single, young and free?