I just feel like my boyfriend doesn’t listen to me. We have been together 3 years and sometimes I feel like he just doesn’t listen. His best friend is constantly getting too friendly, if you understand what I’m saying, and I try to tell my bf about it and he just thinks it’s all a joke and doesn’t take me seriously.
How do you know when you should listen and when you should speak? How do you know when you should take into consideration what others think about you, and when to think only about what YOU think about you?
I have been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years and this is my first serious relationship. I worry a lot about what’s normal and what I should expect from him. He does some “typical” boyfriend things like opening a door for me. He is really nice to me for the most part.
However, if he does something I don’t like, even when I ask him to stop, he continues doing it. He doesn’t fight fair at all, and he holds grudges forever. I am happy with him, but he also makes me extremely sad and angry sometimes. He is mean to my friends and he thinks this is okay because him and his friends are mean to each other. Continue reading